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These Community Guidelines should spell out what it means to be FlirtySomething. Your use of FlirtySomething is subject to these Guidelines and our Terms of Use.

So, please:

Play Well With Others
Everyone has the right to feel comfortable on FlirtySomething, no matter how different one's perspectives are from another's. Remember what your parents taught you about good manners. Be polite and respectful in your interactions with all other members, whether you've dated them, want to date them, or not.

Enjoy Yourself!
Socialize and share good times online in a variety of FlirtySomething settings, forge relationships, and if you're lucky, find someone who opens your heart.

Please don't:

Vent your frustrations or rant at other members
Dating and romance can be frustrating at times. But, remember always that FlirtySomething is not a venue for to you harass, abuse, impersonate, or intimidate others. If we receive a valid complaint about your conduct, we will send you a warning or terminate your account.

Use FlirtySomething for Commercial Purposes
FlirtySomething is for personal use only. If you sell products, services or yourself through your profile and postings, we will terminate your account. Any other commercial use of FlirtySomething, its content and technologies, must be approved by us first. If you have questions about affiliations with, advertising on, and commercial usage of FlirtySomething, please feel free to contact us.

Upload photos that include frontal nudity, genitalia and/or "intimate moments" between consenting partners on FlirtySomething. Don't post textual equivalents of such photos either…
If you do post such content on FlirtySomething, we reserve the right to terminate your account without warning.

Upload content that is illegal in public or private areas of FlirtySomething
It's unfortunate but true; there are a lot of sickos out there. If we find any on FlirtySomething, their account will be deleted and we'll take appropriate action that may include reporting them to the authorities.

Important things to keep in mind:

Other People (their content, their behavior)
If you are offended by a posting or photo, and think it violates these guidelines, you can report it to the FlirtySomething staff. We will be responsive. We're all about you, building the FlirtySomething community.

In Conclusion
We don't want to cramp anyone's style, and we want everyone to have a good time. If you don't feel that you can abide by our Community Guidelines as outlined above, maybe FlirtySomething isn't for you.

If you have any questions, comments, or suggestions, we'd love to hear from you! Please feel free to drop us a line.


Terms & Conditions

By using the FlirtySomething.com website (the "Website") you agree to be bound by these Terms of Service (this "Agreement"), whether or not you register as a member ("Member"). This Agreement sets out the legally binding terms of your use of the Website and your membership in the FlirtySomething.com service (the "Service"). This Agreement is subject to change by FlirtySomething.com ("FlirtySomething") at any time, effective upon posting an updated Agreement on the Website; any use of the Website or the Service after such notice will constitute acceptance by you of such changes.

  1. Eligibility. You must be eighteen (18) or over to register as a Member of the Service or use the Website. Membership in the Service is void where prohibited. By using the Website, you represent and warrant that you have the right, authority, and capacity to enter into this Agreement and to abide by all of the terms and conditions of this Agreement.

  2. Term. This Agreement will remain in full force and effect while you use the Website and/or are a Member. You may terminate your membership at any time, for any reason by receipt by FlirtySomething of your written or e-mail notice of termination. FlirtySomething may terminate your membership for any reason, effective upon sending notice to you at the e-mail address you provide in your application for membership, or such other e-mail address as you may later provide to FlirtySomething. If FlirtySomething terminates your membership in the Service because you have breached the Agreement, you will not be entitled to any refund of unused subscription fees. Even after membership is terminated, this Agreement will remain in effect. Even after this Agreement is terminated, certain provisions will remain in effect, including sections 5, 6, and 9-14 of this Agreement.

  3. Exclusive Use. Your account is for your sole, personal use. You may not authorize others to use your account, and you may not assign or otherwise transfer your account to any other person or entity.

  4. Unauthorized Use. The Website and the Service are for the personal use of individuals only, for purposes consistent with the Website and Service and this Agreement. You may not use the Website or Service in connection with any commercial or group activities or resell the Service. Organizations, companies or businesses may not become Members and may not use the Service or the Website for any purpose. Collecting Member usernames or e-mail addresses, or other information on the Website, by electronic or other means, is prohibited. Framing of or linking to the Website without written permission from FlirtySomething is prohibited.

  5. Proprietary Rights. This Website and all materials displayed or made available on it are protected by copyright by either the owners of the Website and/or its third-party content providers. This Website is for your personal, non-commercial use only, under a license by the owners of the Website with no transfer of title. You may not use any of the materials available from this Website on any other website or networked computer environment. You may not remove any copyright or other legal notices from any materials downloaded from this Website. Except for that information which is in the public domain or for which you have been given written permission, you may not copy, modify, publish, transmit, distribute, perform, display, or sell any such proprietary information.

  6. Content Posted on the Site.

    1. You understand and agree that FlirtySomething may review and delete any content, messages, photos, or profiles (collectively, "Content") that in the sole judgment of FlirtySomething violate this Agreement or which might be offensive, illegal, or that might violate the rights, harm, or threaten the safety of Members.

    2. You are solely responsible for the Content that you publish or display (hereinafter, "post") on the Service, or transmit to other Members.

    3. By posting Content to any public area of FlirtySomething, you automatically grant, and you represent and warrant that you have the right to grant, to FlirtySomething an irrevocable, perpetual, non-exclusive, fully paid, worldwide license to use, copy, perform, display, and distribute such information and content and to prepare derivative works of, or incorporate into other works, such information and content, and to grant and authorize sublicenses of the foregoing.

    4. You will only create one unique profile with the Service.

    5. The following is a partial list of the kind of Content that is illegal or prohibited on the Website. FlirtySomething reserves the right to investigate and take appropriate legal action in its sole discretion against anyone who violates this provision, including without limitation, removing the offending communication from the Service and terminating the membership of such violators. It includes Content that:

      1. is patently offensive to the online community, such as Content that promotes racism, bigotry, hatred or physical harm of any kind against any group or individual;

      2. harasses or advocates harassment of another person;

      3. involves the transmission of "junk mail", "chain letters," or unsolicited mass mailing or "spamming";

      4. promotes information that you know is false, misleading or promotes illegal activities or conduct that is abusive, threatening, obscene, defamatory or libelous;

      5. promotes an illegal or unauthorized copy of another person's copyrighted work, such as providing pirated computer programs or links to them, providing information to circumvent manufacture-installed copy-protect devices, or providing pirated music or links to pirated music files;

      6. contains restricted or password only access pages, or hidden pages or images (those not linked to or from another accessible page);

      7. provides material that exploits people under the age of 18 in a sexual or violent manner, or solicits personal information from anyone under 18;

      8. provides instructional information about illegal activities such as making or buying illegal weapons, violating someone's privacy, or providing or creating computer viruses;

      9. solicits passwords or personal identifying information for commercial or unlawful purposes from other users; and

      10. engages in commercial activities and/or sales without our prior written consent such as contests, sweepstakes, barter, advertising, and pyramid schemes.

    6. You will not provide inaccurate, misleading or false information to FlirtySomething or to any other Member. If information provided to FlirtySomething, or another Member, subsequently becomes inaccurate, misleading or false, you will promptly notify FlirtySomething of such change.

    7. You must use the Service in a manner consistent with any and all applicable local, state, national and international laws and regulations, including, but not limited to, United States export control laws. You are not located in, under the control of, or a national or resident of any country which the United States has (i) embargoed goods, (ii) identified as a "Specially Designated National", or (iii) placed on the Commerce Department's Table of Deny Orders. Membership in, and use of, the Service is void where prohibited.

    8. You may not include in your Member profile any telephone numbers, street addresses, last names, or e-mail addresses.

    9. You may not engage in advertising to, or solicitation of, other Members to buy or sell any products or services through the Service. You may not transmit any chain letters or junk e-mail to other Members. Although FlirtySomething cannot monitor the conduct of its Members off the Website, it is also a violation of these rules to use any information obtained from the Service in order to harass, abuse, or harm another person, or in order to contact, advertise to, solicit, or sell to any Member without their prior explicit consent.

    10. Opinions, advice, statements, offers, or other information or content made available through the Service, but not directly by FlirtySomething, are those of their respective authors, and should not necessarily be relied upon. Such authors are solely responsible for such content. FLIRTYSOMETHING DOES NOT: (i) GUARANTEE THE ACCURACY, COMPLETENESS OR USEFULNESS OF ANY INFORMATION ON THE SERVICE, AND (ii) ADOPT, ENDORSE NOR ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE ACCURACY OR RELIABILITY OF ANY OPINION, ADVICE, OR STATEMENT MADE BY ANY PARTY OTHER THAN FLIRTYSOMETHING. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES WILL FLIRTYSOMETHING BE RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY LOSS OR DAMAGE RESULTING FROM ANYONE'S RELIANCE ON INFORMATION OR OTHER CONTENT POSTED ON THE SERVICE, OR TRANSMITTED TO OR BY ANY MEMBERS.

    11. It is possible that other Members or users (including unauthorized users, or "hackers") may post or transmit offensive or obscene materials on the Service and that you may be involuntarily exposed to such offensive and obscene materials. It also is possible for others to obtain personal information about you due to your use of the Service, and that the recipient may use such information to harass or injure you. FlirtySomething is not responsible for the use of any personal information that you disclose on the Service. Please carefully select the type of information that you post on the Service or release to others.

    12. You will promptly report to FlirtySomething any violation of the Terms of this Service by other Members.

  7. Copyright Policy. You may not post, distribute, or reproduce in any way any copyrighted material, trademarks, or other proprietary information without obtaining the prior written consent of the owner of such proprietary rights. Without limiting the foregoing, if you believe that your work has been copied and posted on the Service in a way that constitutes copyright infringement, please provide FlirtySomething with the following information: an electronic or physical signature of the person authorized to act on behalf of the owner of the copyright interest; a description of the copyrighted work that you claim has been infringed; a description of where the material that you claim is infringing is located on the Website; your address, telephone number, and e-mail address; a written statement by you that you have a good faith belief that the disputed use is not authorized by the copyright owner, its agent, or the law; a statement by you, made under penalty of perjury, that the above information in your notice is accurate and that you are the copyright owner or authorized to act on the copyright owner's behalf.

  8. Member Disputes. You are solely responsible for your interactions with other FlirtySomething Members. FlirtySomething reserves the right, but has no obligation, to monitor disputes between you and other Members.

  9. Privacy. Use of the Website and/or the Service is also governed by our Privacy Policy.

  10. Disclaimers. FlirtySomething is not responsible for any incorrect or inaccurate Content posted on the Website or in connection with the Service, whether caused by users of the Website, Members or by any of the equipment or programming associated with or utilized in the Service. FlirtySomething is not responsible for the conduct, whether online or offline, of any user of the Website or Member of the Service. FlirtySomething assumes no responsibility for any error, omission, interruption, deletion, defect, delay in operation or transmission, communications line failure, theft or destruction or unauthorized access to, or alteration of, user or Member communications. FlirtySomething is not responsible for any problems or technical malfunction of any telephone network or lines, computer online systems, servers or providers, computer equipment, software, failure of email or players on account of technical problems or traffic congestion on the Internet or at any Website or combination thereof, including injury or damage to users and/or Members or to any other person's computer related to or resulting from participating or downloading materials in connection with the Web and/or in connection with the Service. Under no circumstances will FlirtySomething be responsible for any loss or damage, including personal injury or death, resulting from anyone's use of the Website or the Service, any Content posted on the Website or transmitted to Members, or any interactions between users of the Website, whether online or offline. The Website and the Service are provided "AS-IS" and FlirtySomething expressly disclaims any warranty of fitness for a particular purpose or non-infringement. FlirtySomething cannot guarantee and does not promise any specific results from use of the Website and/or the Service.

  11. Limitation on Liability. Except in jurisdictions where such provisions are restricted, in no event will FlirtySomething be liable to you or any third person for any indirect, consequential, exemplary, incidental, special or punitive damages, including also lost profits arising from your use of the Website or the Service, even if FlirtySomething has been advised of the possibility of such damages. Notwithstanding anything to the contrary contained herein, FlirtySomething's liability to you for any cause whatsoever, and regardless of the form of the action, will at all times be limited to the amount paid, if any, by you to FlirtySomething for the Service during the term of membership.

  12. Disputes. If there is any dispute about or involving the Website and/or the Service, by using the Website, you agree that the dispute will be governed by the laws of the State of California without regard to its conflict of law provisions. You expressly agree and consent to the exclusive jurisdiction and venue of the state and federal courts in the State of California, City of Los Angeles, for the resolution of any such dispute, other than for actions to enforce any order or judgment entered by such courts.

  13. Indemnity. You agree to indemnify and hold FlirtySomething, its subsidiaries, affiliates, officers, agents, and other partners and employees, harmless from any loss, liability, claim, or demand, including reasonable attorney's fees, made by any third party due to or arising out of your use of the Service in violation of this Agreement and/or arising from a breach of this Agreement and/or any breach of your representations and warranties set forth above. This indemnity shall be applicable without regard to the negligence of any party, including any indemnified person.

  14. Entire Agreement. This Agreement, accepted upon use of the Website and further affirmed by becoming a Member of the Service, contains the entire agreement between you and FlirtySomething regarding the use of the Website and/or the Service. If any provision of this Agreement is held invalid, the remainder of this Agreement shall continue in full force and effect.

  15. Terms and Conditions of Purchase
    All purchases are subject to the following terms and conditions:

    Rates: The current rates offered at FlirtySomething.com are:

    Initial Term Initial Cost Guaranteed Monthly Renewal Rate*
    1 Month $15.00 $15.00
    3 Months $36.00 $12.00
    6 Months $60.00 $10.00

    * The Guaranteed Monthly Renewal Rate is applicable only if you used a credit card and your subscription will continue at such rate after the expiration of your initial subscription term. (See the Additional Terms and Conditions.)


Additional terms and conditions:

  1. All purchases are final. No refund will be given for unused portions of your subscription period.

  2. We guarantee that mail sent by you ("Purchaser") will be processed by the FlirtySomething.com system and sent to the recipient's mailbox on the FlirtySomething.com system. Notwithstanding, we do not guarantee a response from the recipient nor do we make any other promises or warranties of any kind.

  3. Purchaser hereby agrees that subscription privileges are non-refundable in the event that Purchaser chooses to suspend or cancel his/her membership. Furthermore, no refund will be made in the event of termination of Purchaser's membership due to a violation of FlirtySomething Terms and Conditions of Service. In that respect, Purchaser hereby agrees that, in addition to the grounds for termination set forth in the Terms and Conditions of Service, offensive behavior towards other members or use of foul language in the chat room, emails to members or in Purchaser's profile will constitute sufficient grounds for such termination of Purchaser's membership and/or subscription.

  4. All disputes between MenschMatch LLC and Purchaser regarding FlirtySomething.com services shall be brought to a binding arbitration in accordance with the rules of the Better Business Bureau and all such arbitration shall take place in Los Angeles, California.

  5. By submitting this purchase, Purchaser hereby acknowledges, agrees and authorizes FlirtySomething.com to renew Purchaser's subscription, automatically, every month, at the guaranteed renewal rate that applies to the purchase option chosen by Purchaser, until such time as Purchaser instructs FlirtySomething.com to stop the renewals. Renewals can be stopped by logging in as a member and clicking on "Member Services".
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