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Because we gather certain types of information about our users, we feel you should fully understand the terms and conditions surrounding the capture and use of that information. This Privacy Policy discloses what information we gather and how we use it.

Privacy Policy

Because we gather certain types of information about our users, we feel you should fully understand the terms and conditions surrounding the capture and use of that information. This Privacy Policy discloses what information we gather and how we use it. This Privacy Policy does not apply to the practices of companies that FlirtySomething does not control, or to individuals that FlirtySomething does not employ or otherwise manage.

By accepting this Privacy Policy and our Terms of Service, you expressly consent to our use and disclosure of your personal information in the manner prescribed in this Privacy Policy. This Privacy Policy is incorporated into and subject to the terms of FlirtySomething.com's Terms of Service.


  1. Confidentiality. Your name, e-mail address, postal address, and telephone number are confidential and will not be posted in your profile. Your profile is available for other members to view. Members' profiles include descriptions, photographs, and other information helpful in determining matches. Your viewable profile does not include any identifying information about you, except the username you choose upon registering and any other information or photographs you submit for inclusion in your profile.

  2. Our Use of Your Information. We use information in the files we maintain about you, and the other information we obtain from your current and past activities on the Website, to resolve disputes, troubleshoot problems and enforce our Terms of Service. At times, we may look across multiple members to identify problems or resolve disputes and, in particular, we may examine your information to identify members with multiple profiles or aliases. You also agree that we may use personally identifiable information about you to improve our marketing and promotional efforts, to analyze Website usage, improve our content and product offerings, and customize our Website's content, layout, and services. These uses improve our Website and better tailor them to meet your needs.

  3. Our Disclosure of Your Information. Due to the existing regulatory environment, we cannot ensure that all of your private communications and other personally identifiable information will never be disclosed in ways not otherwise described in this Privacy Policy. By way of example, but without limiting the foregoing, we may (and you authorize us to) disclose information about you to law enforcement and other government officials as we, in our sole discretion, believe necessary in connection with an investigation of illegal activity or other activity that may expose us or you to legal liability. Under certain circumstances, third parties may unlawfully intercept or access transmissions or private communications, or members may abuse or misuse your information that they collect from our Websites. Therefore, although we use industry standard practices to protect your privacy, we do not promise, and you should not expect, that your personally identifiable information or private communications will always remain private. As a matter of policy, unless we otherwise notify you, and receive your permission, we do not sell or rent any personally identifiable information about you to any third party. However, the following describes some of the ways that your personally identifiable information may be disclosed under this Privacy Policy without additional notice to you.

    1. Financial Information. Under some circumstances we may require some additional information, such as, but not limited to, credit card details (including your name, address, and other information). We use your financial information to check your qualifications and to bill you for services and/or products. By making a purchase, or engaging in any other kind of activity or transaction that uses financial information on the Website, you consent to our providing your financial information to our service providers and to such third parties as we determine necessary to support and process your activities and transactions, as well as to your credit card issuer for their purposes. These third parties may include, without limitation, the credit card companies and banking institutions used to process and support the transaction or activity. By purchasing, registering, or making reservations for products or services of third parties offered on the Website, or by participating in programs offered on the Website that are administered by third parties and that require you to submit financial information in order to use them, you also consent to our providing your financial information to those third parties. Any of these various third parties may be authorized to use your financial information in accordance with our contractual arrangements with such third parties and in accordance with their own privacy policies, over which we have no control, and you agree that we are not responsible or liable for any of their actions or omissions. Additionally, you agree that we may use and disclose all such information so submitted to such third parties in the same manner in which we are entitled to use and disclose any other information that you submit to us.

    2. Legal Requests. FlirtySomething cooperates with law enforcement inquiries, as well as other third parties to enforce laws, such as: intellectual property rights, fraud and other rights. We can, and you authorize us to, disclose any information about you to law enforcement and other government officials as we, in our sole discretion, believe necessary or appropriate, in connection with an investigation of fraud, intellectual property infringements, or other activity that is illegal or may expose us or you to legal liability.

  4. Your Use of other Members' Information. Our services include modes of communication with other Members. As a member you have access to the Members' profiles, and you might gain access to other contact information of Members through the use of the Website. By accepting this Privacy Policy, you agree that, with respect to other Members' personally identifiable information that you obtain through your use of FlirtySomething services, you may only use such information for: (a) FlirtySomething related communications that are not unsolicited commercial messages, and (b) any other purpose that such member expressly agrees to after adequate disclosure of the purpose(s). In all cases, you must give Members an opportunity to remove themselves from your database and a chance to review what information you have collected about them. In addition, under no circumstances, except as defined in this Section, can you disclose personally identifiable information about another member to any third party without our consent and the consent of such other member after adequate disclosure. FlirtySomething and our Members do not tolerate spam. Therefore, without limiting the foregoing, you are not licensed to add FlirtySomething Members to your mail list (e-mail or physical mail) without their express written consent after adequate disclosure.

  5. Accessing, Reviewing and Changing Your Profile. Following registration, you can review and change the information you submitted during registration through the "My Place" section including, among other things, your password and e-mail address. You can also change your registration information such as: city, state, zip code, self-description and other information.

  6. Control of Your Password. You are responsible for all actions taken with your login information and password. Therefore we do not recommend that you disclose your FlirtySomething password or login information to any third parties. If you choose to share this information with third parties, you are responsible for all actions taken with your login information and password and therefore should review each third party's privacy policy. If you lose control of your password, you may lose substantial control over your personally identifiable information and may be subject to legally binding actions taken on your behalf. Therefore, if your password has been compromised for any reason, you should immediately change your password.

  7. The Security of Your Information. We work diligently to protect the security of your personal information. During transmission of your financial information, we use Secure Sockets Layer (SSL) technology, which encrypts the information you input. Your data is kept in a highly secure environment protected from access by unauthorized parties. It is important for you to protect against unauthorized access to your password and to your computer by ensuring you logoff when finished visiting FlirtySomething using a shared computer (such as computers from work, cyber-cafes or libraries).

  8. Children/Minors. Protecting the privacy of the young is especially important to FlirtySomething. For that reason, we never collect or maintain information at our Website from those we actually know are under 18, and no part of our Web site should be used by those under 18. If we learn that anyone under 18 is using the site, that person will be blocked from accessing the site.

  9. Usage Tracking. Protecting the privacy of the young is especially important to FlirtySomething. For that reason, we never collect or maintain information at our Website from those we actually know are under 18, and no part of our Web site should be used by those under 18. If we learn that anyone under 18 is using the site, that person will be blocked from accessing the site.

  10. Cookies. We may place a text file called a "cookie" in the browser files of your computer. The cookie itself does not contain personally identifiable information although it will enable us to relate your use of this Site to information that you have specifically and knowingly provided. But the only personal information a cookie can contain is information you supply yourself. A cookie cannot read data off your hard disk or read cookie files created by other sites. We use cookies to track user traffic patterns, as described above.

    You can refuse cookies by turning them off in your browser. If you've set your browser to warn you before accepting cookies, you will receive the warning message with each cookie. You do not need to have cookies turned on to use this Site. You do, however, need cookies to participate actively in message boards, forums, polls, surveys, and other services.

  11. Policy Revisions. We may change this Privacy Policy from time to time based on your comments and our need to accurately reflect our data collection and disclosure practices, which may also change from time to time. IF YOU DO NOT AGREE WITH THE PRIVACY POLICY, PLEASE DISCONTINUE ALL USE OF THE WEBSITE AND THE SERVICE. THE PRIVACY POLICY IS SUBJECT TO CHANGES MADE BY US, AT ANY TIME, EFFECTIVE UPON NOTICE TO YOU, WHICH NOTICE SHALL BE DEEMED TO HAVE BEEN PROVIDED UPON OUR POSTING OF THE CURRENT VERSION OF THIS PRIVACY POLICY ON OUR WEBSITE.
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